Tag Archives: relationship effectiveness

Is Humble Leadership an Oxymoron?

  As I was playing a Madden football video game with my son recently, I couldn’t help but notice what he had his players do …

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6 Ways You are Driving Your Team Crazy – And Probably Don’t Even Know It

Even the best leaders have habits that make their teams crazy. Beware of these favorites that have been known to cause mumbling under the breath, …

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How to Say “No”… Effectively

Saying “no” can be be difficult – even for leaders. And especially when your boss or someone important to you expects a “yes.” Yet when we …

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Whipped Cream on a Cow Pie: People Skills Without Love

Teaching “people skills” to leaders who don’t care about people is like putting whipped cream on a cow pie. When you take a bite, it’s …

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Four Tips for Managing Up

Sometimes it’s more difficult to ‘manage up’ than it is to ‘manage down.’ No matter where you are on the food chain in your organization, …

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Do You Really Want Honest Feedback?

Most of us want constructive feedback like we want a punch in the stomach. We know that to be most effective we need others to …

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Don’t Let Your Project Go Over a Fiscal Cliff

We’ve all been there – a gridlock in traffic, a voting stalemate when sides are evenly divided, projects that take a nosedive because teams can’t …

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Don’t Waste Your Organization’s Time and Money on Assessments

I have a love-hate relationship with behavior style assessments. Used appropriately, they can be fantastic tools for organizations to assess fit and to increase people’s …

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People Skills without This Are Ineffective

Without love and respect, people skills are limited – and so is leadership effectiveness. I’ve been reminded of this lately as I’ve coached some extremely …

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Separating Personal and Professional: Leadership Lessons from Petraeus

I am sad when high-profile successful professionals fall down in their personal lives. Military strategist and US Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) chief, General David Petraeus, …

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